A non-refundable deposit is required to secure our date. The deposit amount is usually 20% of the booking fee (plus travel if applicable). The balance is payable in cash in full at the start of the date, and no refunds are possible once our date has begun.

You can make the deposit payment by bank transfer or gift card. I will let you know how to pay the deposit, and will confirm once I have received it. Deposits are not refundable.


I ask new clients to send screening information ahead of meeting. This is usually a photo ID and a reference along with a verifiable online presence. Any information you provide and anything we discuss together is treated as strictly confidential. Please know that your privacy is as important to me as my own, and my discretion is guaranteed. Thank you for respecting my need for safety.


Deposits are not refundable. I do understand that life happens, so rescheduling may be possible at my discretion, with adequate notice and for a date rescheduled within a reasonable timeframe. Please note that my decision is final. In the event that I need to cancel, you can choose either a reschedule or a refund.


I am discreet, respectful, and have excellent manners, and I expect the same of you in return. If at any point during our time together I feel that my boundaries are not respected or that my safety is compromised, I will terminate our date with no refund and may take further action. My discretion and respect extend so long as yours do. Please read my guide to etiquette here.


I generally do not see members of review boards who are active reviewers or who consider dating a human being to be a 'hobby'. I expect anybody I spend time with to respect my privacy and extend the same level of discretion to me that I do for them. For this reason, I do not allow reviews online. My discretion and respect extend so long as yours do. You can read more about this here.